Make your guests tell the truth. After you get the "I'm leaving, thank you so much for putting this party together, the food was great." You'll be confident they are not sugar coating anything if you book with us.
Building a restaurant is hard, but let me tell you. Updating and changing a website made by a professional? That is impossible. Thank goodness for Youtube.
Leadership in any organization is hard. The difficulty of it all is what bonds people who enjoy managing personalities. Better to give it a run & try than to sit on your hands and lament.